Stella Damasus & Beau Daniel Think That They Disagree With The Fact To Have A Best Friend Of Opposite Sex


Stella Damasus invited her beau Daniel Ademinokan on her Atlanta radio show ‘Undiluted with Stella Damasus’ on Monday to talk about a topic. The  topic was  “should a married man/woman allow their spouse have the a best friend of the opposite sex?  

Daniel Ademinokan said:  
   
"I got many female friends before getting married. I even fell in love with one of them but she did not accept to be with me because she did not love me. I learned from this experience and that make me realize that it is not safe and sane for a man to have a best friend from other sex or vice- versa. When we say befriends that means that there is no secret between them, each other knows about other life. For that reason I repeat that it is not good for a man/woman to have a best friend from opposite sex. The Bible advices us to keep ourselves away from sin whatever its forms. I think that as married man to have a best friend who isn’t your wife"
   
"I think it is not normal as married man your wife is not your best friend. Do all to keep her as your best friend, but if you try and that does not work, trust a man. Avoid to trust a woman because we are not all master of our emotions and it is threatening.  I don’t forbid having female friends, but I just tell to avoid telling her all about your life, she is not at the best position to be your confidant. Nobody can master his/her emotions, so they can run away toward where we don’t choose. When you argue with your wife, try to resolve the problem yourself without friends. I could not accept that my wife has a virile best friend."    
 
Stella said,  
   
"I think also that it is not good to have a best friend of opposite sex."
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